“Hey, how are you? seems sad and depressed. what happened?”
“Yes, I am. Feeling low and helpless. Don’t know what to do in life. Life entrapped.”
Most of twenties feel that kind of shit every day.
Being in your twenties can be both exhilarating and fill you with anxiety. Most of twenties can be spent irresolute to try and solve the questions in life. There are many factors that play a key role to force them into this condition. They feel helpless and can enter into a state of depression. Their confidence level becomes zero.
It is the stage where mind starts developing practically in every sphere of life.
Well, you are not the only one who is facing this stage of life. There are thousands and thousands of twenties who are on this ledge. The most important thing here is how you fight and cope in this difficult time.
We hesitate to accept our problems at this age. It is not like you are coward and don’t want to fight with the problems. The point is our next hard level. There is such a big difference between being a teenager and being in your twenties. Teenage is such a crazy mess. A teenager is like a frog in the well who doesn’t know what’s happening outside the well. And when this frog jumps out from the well, he gets shocked and feel helpless because he doesn’t know anything outside his well. Slowly he sees the new phase of life. He becomes afraid of it. There is nobody to guide him. What to do ? what is my goal? What do I want?
This stage is like renaissance. We just get confused when we see new things are coming in our life without giving any notice. Our distracted thoughts and wishes try to converge them into a bundle. Mostly we do mistakes and afraid of that instead facing it with courage and confidence. This is the age where our confidence level goes up and down instantly.
I think your 20s are the hardest part of life. I mean, everyone goes on about how hard it is to be a teenager, but actually I think it’s tougher to be in your 20s because you’re expected to be a grownup and expected to earn your own living and be successful and I think you feel like a kid still. Nigel Cole
I am very sorry for those 20s who are in depression and think that nothing left in their life just because of something not happened accordingly to them. But here I want to mention that you 20s won’t get this much strength and powerful evolutionary thoughts ever. Recognize your strength and goals. Achieve them with dedication and smile. Your 20s are not by default the only time in your life that you can pick up and go, or that you can try out different careers. The space where comfort and risk come together is a space where learning and growing are most likely to happen. If you get set in your ways and become unsatisfied but comfortable, you’ll never learn anything different unless you’re willing to put yourself in a scary position.
Now the another important side of 20s is Relationship. First learn to “MOVE ON”. In this age we seek security and help. Our emotions start building their beautiful castle and we let somebody allow to come inside it. We think that somebody will help us in decorating our beautiful dream of world. We forget that we just started to develop ourself and when we face some problems in relationship, our beautiful castle goes down. We get hurt badly. I am not against relationship. But chose somebody who is honest and can help you in pushing towards your goals. Don’t choose them for your security. Don’t forget that you have to prove yourself by your own.
Positive, healthy, loving relationships in your twenties… I don’t know if anyone would disagree with it: I think they’re the exception, not the norm. People are either playing house really aggressively because they’re scared of what an uncertain time it is, or they’re avoiding commitment altogether. Lena Dunham
So Twenties be confident in your life style. Don’t waste this beautiful evolutionary time in negative things. Think and understand yourself. All the answers are in your mind. Be practical. Make good friends. Choose good positive people arround you. Don’t involve in that shit which can make you regret entire life. Remember NEVER GIVE UP.
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