Faith in God :)


Cool ! Today I am gonna talk about the faith in God. This is not the topic about God exists or not. Those who believe in God’s existence, they are very welcomed to read my blog and those who don’t, they are also very welcomed to read and criticise my words. lol 🙂

Today I watched a beautiful movie named “Miracles from Heaven” and what I realised that we are trapped in our daily life and don’t have a single minute to remember the God. We have forgotten to thank our God that he gave us a beautiful life to live. He blessed us with some supreme qualities which make us HUMAN and abstract from other lives. In everyday’s life, he wants to tell us that yes he is with us in any situation. But we have not been noticing. Don’t worry. Either you remember him or not, he is with you. He isn’t gonna leave you alone. 🙂

Personally, I had been gone through a hard time in my life. And whenever I used to pray God, it enlightened my inner soul. It gave me the power of faith and made me stronger against my problems.  I never lose my hope. Faith in God truly feeds your hope. Today I believe that there is a spiritual religious part inside everyone. Some are lucky to recognise it very early and they can tell you some miracles of God. And those who are still untouched from this part, God have decided the right time for them too. A wonder will happen one day and they will also believe in faith. Here wonder doesn’t refer to a magic or something unnatural thing. Faith lies in small but priceless human values like help, forgiveness, hard work, love, trust, patience, truth, positive hope, motivation, peace.

I am not saying that you should follow my words from today onwards. It is up to you when you start doing those prays to God. Material life is just a phantasm which distracts your soul from the faith. God decided to test our values whether we can stand for them or not and he created this phantasm. Unfortunately, we trapped in this. Material life is optional, it is not necessary. It pushes you into the darkness of the life. You will face problem on this path. There is a continuity of the problems in this. On the other hand, a faithful life is more focused and easygoing. It delivers more peace and strength into your life.


Hello, friends 🙂



  1. Complain about not giving enough time.
  2. The significant difference in ideas/opinion on how to deal difficult situations.
  3. Unsupportive/Ignorant/possessive behaviour.
  4. Reliance on social media to regulate the relationship.
  5. Depression of one/both because of long distance relationship.
  6. Lack of trust/loyalty.
  7. Jealousy because of his/her work and frank behaviour with others.


I shall cover all the problems one by one. Before starting I want you to remember one thing that men and women are at odds with each other. We get angry or frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten the truth of difference. We expect the opposite sex to be more like us. We desire them to “want what we want” and “feel what we feel.”

  1. First, take a deep breath and relax your mind. Your clueless mind runs your emotions and makes you anxious. Let your mind coolly figure out why your partner doesn’t have enough time for you. If you allow your rational mind to see the reason clearly, you will see he/she must be busy with some work or something which holds importance in their life. Most of the time you will find out that he/she is just busy with their work. Let them do their work. Do not disturb them. They are developing their individual identity. Allow them to do that. You will notice that whenever you yourself are busy with something, you too tend to do the same. The only difference is that he/she doesn’t show their feelings whilst you remain busy. If you give them personal space, they certainly would do better in their individual life and would want coming back to you sooner than later. Be patient and wait for your turn to get attention from them. They will come back to you if your love for them is pure and loyal. Keep yourself busy with other matters and do not share it with him/her. If you show your loneliness to him/her, they might get irritated. Let them ask you what’s wrong when they feel the need to ask. Do the same for them. Remember Love never dies no matter what.IMG_5170
  2. Men and Women, both are completely different from each other. They have their own individual thoughts/opinion on the same topic. There might be few thoughts/opinions which shall be common to both but certainly not all of them. Always respect this difference. These differences are necessary and hence are required to maintain the essence of a relationship. You see like poles repulse each other with all their might. So try to understand his/her thoughts and respect them. Always keep one thing in your mind that opposite sex is completely different from you. During difficult times, try to talk to them and listen to what they have to say carefully. Only post a healthy discussion, you can hope to resolve the issues. In adversity, you have to be their close friend more than being just their partner.IMG_5171
  3. A very common yet overwhelming feeling seen between a couple is the feeling of anxiety. The feeling of being unsupported/possessed/ignored by the other half plays the devil in a relationship. When we fall in love with someone, naturally we gain some right over them and want to enjoy the unspoken privilege. We use both of these two to control the relationship. We naively try to change our partner’s lifestyle only to find out that it was a grave mistake and he/she has grown indifferent to us. Irritation and frustration take place of once beautiful feelings. We get shocked and sad at the demise of our optimistic hopes to change our partner to what we wanted them to be. But we forget that we fell in love with them when they were nothing but themselves.This consuming feeling of changing our partner into someone who we like to eventually let the relationship down. Questions of self-doubt creep in, taunting us about what have we ended up in.In the beginning of the relationship, we were strangers. Our curious mind naturally tried to understand these newly found changes in the way we feel about our partner. Time passed by. Slowly we got used to them and our original character rose up again. When it realised changes in our life, it started retaliating/protesting and resisted acceptance of the new. The result of this resistance developed unreasonable behaviour in us. But the solution to overcome this situation lies in itself. Simply refuse to exercise your right/privilege over your Think twice before talking/texting them. Know your limitations and keep yourself reminded of them.IMG_5174
  4. Another burning issue although useless yet very predominant is the extent of the presence of social media in our lives. One should understand that social media is just a virtual world. A person is free to share their opinion/thoughts there. Don’t relate opinions and actions shown in the virtual world with your real life. Sometimes I see that he/she becomes sad/depressed when their partner gets an unknown friend request or message on social media. This is utterly ridiculous.If they find new friends, that doesn’t mean less for you but more for them. You should realise that you can’t control anything in this world but yourself. You should maintain your unfaltering faith in your partner. Try making these uncomfortable situations funny and clear your doubts tactfully.IMG_5175
  5. Long distance relationship is one of the most challenging problems faced by a couple. It brings negative Feelings like jealousy and constant fear of being cheated on in a couple.Also when it gets to the grassroots level conversation shared by the two is downright boring due to lack of attraction which in turn is caused by the awful distance between the two. Lack of intimacy caused due to them being physically distant harms their sexual life irreversibly. The foremost thing we need to understand is that we humans fear to lose our beloved people the most regardless of the distance between us.That daunting fear of loss naturally forces us to feel bad for ourselves in a case of long distance relationships. Unless it’s beyond repair we must make efforts to face the negativity ourselves and then share it with our loved ones.One should let their partner know when these problem causing feelings arise so as to escape hurtful notions later.One thing to keep in mind is that in a healthy relationship, none of the two should knowingly create situations where these negative feelings take birth.Don’t repress your problems, instead express it with clarity maintaining a calm posture all along.Long distance relationship has its own beauty. If the couple keeps the bar of loyalty and loves high, then it would turn into a wonderful experience for both of them. Separation can be unbearable to the start but it can get comforting and amazing too once it’s deep magical feeling is understood.You shall cross every limit of being in love and experience what we read in legendary never forgotten love stories. Although sex can be a pill for depression but it can’t give your soul ultimate satisfaction. The satisfaction of being in the arms of your loved one and feeling safe with no guilt is the ultimate one not the act of sex.Long distance relationships are like desserts. You have to pay attention to the ingredients that you choose so as to attain perfection and then be patient to enjoy it with soul-satisfying joy.IMG_5173
  6. The textbook definition of trust is “a firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something” but why am I talking about it. It is because in any kind of relationship trust and loyalty plays a vital role. Whenever we form a relation with someone, the first thing we expect from them is trust and loyalty and display the same ourselves. When we build an environment which breeds trust and confidence that come what may, there would always be one faithful and supportive person to pick us up when we are down emotionally.We develop ourselves positively by virtue of this confidence and it holds high importance in a relationship. The quality of an Intimate relation is judged by the honesty and openness shown by the couple. The conscious decision of choosing the person knowing fully about the things shared by them with us and believing them defines the integrity of the relationship. Trust builds in an atmosphere of security and safety.It gives us balance and stability in life. If once mistrust is born between a couple, it destroys this once thought as unshakable confidence away slowly. Trust can also be destroyed by one partner’s indifference, criticality, contempt, and rejection, both overt and covert.  The cycle of hurting each other, either verbally or physically, and then one rejecting the other, creates the feeling of fear which dithers trust away. Also trying to control your partner’s every move is another form of mistrust, so make sure you’re not possessively clinging on them. That will only push him or her away. When you trust someone, it means you trust yourself too, which fosters healthier relationship in the long run.  I would suggest four important contents required for rebuilding trust and loyalty. First is Honesty and Integrity.  Second is stop being suspicious. Third is Understanding. Fourth is Direct communication.img_3700
  7. what is work? Work is an activity involving mental and physical efforts taken in order to achieve a particular result. When we gaze upon our relationships we notice that it also demands this work with its certain requirements and criteria of its own. Give and take of attention is a hidden part of a relationship. Once one partner diverts his/her attention and time for work, naturally their partner will feel skated over and leeway has been occupied by jealousy and depression. One automatically forgets the demands work has and can be indifferent and contradicting. It’s not compulsory that one should bear the other’s expectations on their shoulders while working. Have you ever noticed your partner doing the same work that you do too but being different in any way than yours? It’s all the same friends. You have to understand the nature of your partner’s attitude towards work. For example, If your partner is in show business then it’s mandatory that he/she has to remain open minded. You can’t complain that they are not giving you attention that you expect from them because they are busy with their colleagues. It is their job. You can’t change the nature of their job.You should rather concentrate on your own work. If you have time to kill and your partner is occupied with their work then call your long lost friends or do activities that will divert your jealousy and pettiness into something positive and plan something that you both can enjoy after they get free.

    Please share this blog to let my thoughts and views to simplify some unwanted yet natural probelms in our life so that an individual can get some help to understand their problems. I hope you like my words. Comments are invited. Thank YOU. 🙂

Gender Aspect : men are from Mars, women are from Venus


Although almost everyone would agree that men and women are different, how different is still undefined for most people. To improve relations between the sexes it is necessary to create an understanding of our differences that raises self-esteem and personal dignity while inspiring mutual trust, personal responsibility, increased cooperation, and greater love. As you explore these differences you will feel walls of resentment and mistrust melting down.

So many people are frustrated in their relationships. They love their partners, but when there is tension they do not know what to do to make things better. Though understanding how completely different men and women are, you will learn new ways for successfully relating with, listening to, and supporting the opposite sex. This expanded understanding of our differences helps resolve much of the frustration in dealing with and trying to understand the opposite sex. When you remember that your partner is as different from you as someone from another planet, you can relax and cooperate with the differences instead of resisting or trying to change them.

Chapter 1

Without the awareness that we are supposed to be different, men and women are at odds with each other. We usually become angry or frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten the truth of differences. We expect the opposite sex to more like ourselves. We desire them to “want what we want” and “feel the way we feel.”


We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways-the ways we react and behave when we love someone. This attitude sets up to be disappointed again and again and prevents us from taking the necessary time to communicate lovingly about our differences. Clearly recognizing and respecting these differences dramatically reduce confusion when dealing with the opposite sex.

Falling in love is always magical It feels eternal, as if love will last forever. But as the magic recedes and daily life take over, it emerges that men continue to expect women to think and react like men, and women expect men to feel and behave like women. Without a clear awareness of our differences, we don’t take the time to understand and respect each other. We become demanding, resentful, judgmental, and intolerant.

With the best and most loving intentions love continues to die. Somehow the problems creep in. The resentments build. Communication breaks down. Mistrust increases. Rejection and repression result. The magic of love is lost.


Through understanding the hidden differences of the opposite sex, we can more successfully give and receive the love that is in our hearts. By validating and accepting our differences, creative solutions can be discovered whereby we can succeed in getting what we want.

When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences the love has a chance to blossom. Love is magical, and it can last, if we remember our differences.




“Hey, how are you? seems sad and depressed. what happened?”

“Yes, I am. Feeling low and helpless. Don’t know what to do in life. Life entrapped.”

Most of twenties feel that kind of shit every day.

Being in your twenties can be both exhilarating and fill you with anxiety. Most of twenties can be spent irresolute to try and solve the questions in life. There are many factors that play a key role to force them into this condition. They feel helpless and can enter into a state of depression. Their confidence level becomes zero.

It is the stage where mind starts developing practically in every sphere of life.

Well, you are not the only one who is facing this stage of life. There are thousands and thousands of twenties who are on this ledge. The most important thing here is how you fight and cope in this difficult time.

We hesitate to accept our problems at this age. It is not like you are coward and don’t want to fight with the problems. The point is our next hard level. There is such a big difference between being a teenager and being in your twenties. Teenage is such a crazy mess. A teenager is like a frog in the well who doesn’t know what’s happening outside the well. And when this frog jumps out from the well, he gets shocked and feel helpless because he doesn’t know anything outside his well. Slowly he sees the new phase of life. He becomes afraid of it. There is nobody to guide him. What to do ? what is my goal? What do I want?

This stage is like renaissance. We just get confused when we see new things are coming in our life without giving any notice. Our distracted thoughts and wishes try to converge them into a bundle. Mostly we do mistakes and afraid of that instead facing it with courage and confidence. This is the age where our confidence level goes up and down instantly.

I think your 20s are the hardest part of life. I mean, everyone goes on about how hard it is to be a teenager, but actually I think it’s tougher to be in your 20s because you’re expected to be a grownup and expected to earn your own living and be successful and I think you feel like a kid still. Nigel Cole 

I am very sorry for those 20s who are in depression and think that nothing left in their life just because of something not happened accordingly to them. But here I want to mention that you 20s won’t get this much strength and powerful evolutionary thoughts ever. Recognize your strength and goals. Achieve them with dedication and smile. Your 20s are not by default the only time in your life that you can pick up and go, or that you can try out different careers. The space where comfort and risk come together is a space where learning and growing are most likely to happen. If you get set in your ways and become unsatisfied but comfortable, you’ll never learn anything different unless you’re willing to put yourself in a scary position.

Now the another important side of 20s is Relationship. First learn to “MOVE ON”. In this age we seek security and help. Our emotions start building their beautiful castle and we let somebody allow to come inside it. We think that somebody will help us in decorating our beautiful dream of world. We forget that we just started to develop ourself and when we face some problems in relationship, our beautiful castle goes down. We get hurt badly. I am not against relationship. But chose somebody who is honest and can help you in pushing towards your goals. Don’t choose them for your security. Don’t forget that you have to prove yourself by your own.

Positive, healthy, loving relationships in your twenties… I don’t know if anyone would disagree with it: I think they’re the exception, not the norm. People are either playing house really aggressively because they’re scared of what an uncertain time it is, or they’re avoiding commitment altogether. Lena Dunham

 So Twenties be confident in your life style. Don’t waste this beautiful evolutionary time in negative things. Think and understand yourself. All the answers are in your mind. Be practical. Make good friends. Choose good positive people arround you. Don’t involve in that shit which can make you regret entire life. Remember NEVER GIVE UP.

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Woman: an agent of Compassion & Love



This topic is a secret in itself. Some researches and persnol experience tried to give the information about the nature of a woman. Yet, the information is not enough to tell and describe about the woman culture. Actually the truth is that nobody Is able to give exact information about any individual behaviour.

Well let me try whether my personal views and studies can tell a little bit about this beautiful human race. Yes, as I mentioned “beautifull” word in my previous sentence I believe a woman is the most beautiful and priceless gift to the man. She is blessed with some unique qualluties and features. Women have a bunch of different behaviour, they shape their behaviour according to the network around them, around their mind or the world that revolves around them, they act in a different way everywhere, they define a different relationship with different kinda people’s. She is full of love and care. Women are more dedicated and devoted to their duties and have much patience and politeness than man by nature.

“Woman is the builder and moulder of a nation’s destiny, though delicate and soft as lily, she has a heart, stronger and bolder than that of a man, she is the supreme inspiration for man’s onward march”

                                                                                                      – Ravindra Nath Tagore

Women are more likely to recall memories that have emotional significance. In your life, you know sporty women, geeky women, fun-loving women, artistic women, ambitious women, and more. Each woman has her own personality and goals. Let her decide how much she feels comfortable sharing with you.


Today world is going after freedom. Every individual is struggling to find his own answers.Here freedom refers all kind of freedom. Freedom in social, natural, ideological, religion, sexual etc. boundaries. It has been proven that every animate or inanimate in this universe wants to prove its existence. Every action of them happens in that direction. Present days most of the people have been stuck in this trap. So it is also the human rights of woman to explore and decide their own things as well as man.

Let them live and spread love. We all need them.



Questions ?

what is Sex ? Is it a fascinating subject with strong feelings and imagination ? or is it only a strong, localized, physical pleasure component ? There are a thousand questions in our unconscious mind about sex. There is also a not defined question which is “is sex a part of love or is it included in love?” Some intellectuals define this question “the difference between sex and love is that sex relieves those feelings which are generated in love.” But then what about those people who are strongly addicted to sex and looking for it all the time, no matter where they are or what they are doing. Sex is always on their mind.  Intellectuals from every field tried to define it but the answer is not satisfactory. Sex is always a mysterious question from ancient times. A lot of research has been done from then till now. But the question remains unsolved.

Answers 🙂

Sex is freedom. The freedom from the darkness of heart and soul. Whenever these sexual desires arise, a person starts thinking to come out from this darkness. Sex always wants to find those wings which can fly so high until it gets satisfaction. Satisfaction of freedom. A society constructs its custom, laws, institutions, and values on the basis of  the differences. They bound the sex in this construction and every individual trash to get out from this asap. The beauty of sex lies in its degree of shine. Sex is the most beautiful natural feeling as well as most dangerous too. It is crazy sometimes and sometimes you will find it peaceful. Let it happen in its beautiful way. Don’t stop it. Forced sexual desires are against its beauty. Yes, it will give an individual satisfaction but also it will ruin its beautiful approach. If you allow to add LOVE in this, it will become the rainbow of your desires. Sex is beyond your mentally and physically pleasure.